Why do women, especially moms, think it is okay to tear down another mom based on her decisions for her child? It's okay to have an opinion and voice that opinion respectfully, but it is never okay to attack or shame another woman or mother for her choice. We as women already have so many judgements and hate placed upon us, from our clothing choices to our hair styles and our bodies. Why make things worse for others? As women and mothers, we should be respecting our fellow women. It does no good to tear someone down just for the enjoyment of hurting someone. Both mothers and non-mothers are culprits of this! If you aren't a mother, there's nothing wrong with that! But do not judge another woman's decision about her child. The lines get blurrier after you have the responsibility of caring for and protecting a human child. Mothers need to build up and support other mothers! This world can be so cruel and we all need a little love.
My plea to women everywhere is this: Be kind to your fellow woman. Pray for her, show her love, and support or encourage her in times of need. There is no need to be mean to someone for the sake of being mean. Whether it is in real life or on social media, the goal should be the same. Love your fellow humans and especially your fellow woman.
Unfortunately, this need to attack and tear down other women is centuries, if not eons, old. Call it biological competitiveness, if you like. Biologically, a woman can only produce so many offspring - many less than an individual male. So women try to build their stock by tearing down other women. As you pointed out, we do it over every stinking little thing - too fat, too skinny, too much makeup, needs makeup, obvious plastic surgery, needs some plastic surgery, etc. It's all about what each woman thinks she lacks, and the need to find fault with others. It's not necessary in this day and age, but there you have it. It sucks, and it isn't healthy.
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